I sat across from the mirror. My eyes had dark circles beneath them.
"How's the new business going?" I asked myself.
"Man, I'm working around the clock. Endless calls, meetings, networking events. I barely sleep. I'm giving it everything I have."
Then came the harder question: "But how's the business doing?"
My expression shifted. "Well... I haven't landed any clients yet."
Two tables over at my regular coffee shop, another entrepreneur was laughing on a phone call. He shows up three days a week, works five hours, then goes to play golf. His business cleared seven figures last year.
The universe doesn't distribute rewards based on my timesheet.
Here's the uncomfortable truth:
You are rewarded in life by the results you produce, not the effort and time you put in.
The marketplace doesn't care that I stayed up until 3 AM.
My potential customers don't care that I missed my kid's soccer game.
My boss doesn't care that I haven't taken a vacation in three years.
They care about what I delivered.
I know a freelance designer who works 20 hours a week and makes six figures. His client doesn't know or care about his hours. They just love what he creates.
Meanwhile, I've been working 80-hour weeks and making half as much. "But I'm working so hard," I keep telling myself.
The marketplace has spoken.
The farmer who plows all day but never plants seeds goes hungry, no matter how much sweat drips from his brow.
The writer who edits the same paragraph for months has no readers, regardless of her dedication.
The entrepreneur who perfects a business plan but never launches has no customers, despite all those late nights.
I fall into this trap because effort feels virtuous. Busyness feels important. "I'm working really hard" sounds better than "I haven't figured out how to work effectively yet."
But here's the secret the winners know:
Effort without results is just expensive motion.
This isn't about working less. It's about focusing on what matters.
I need to ask myself:
If I were judged solely on my output today (not my intention, not my effort), what would the verdict be?
What percentage of my "busy" time actually produces measurable results?
What am I avoiding by staying busy with low-impact tasks?
The best in any field aren't usually the ones working the most hours.
They're the ones who ruthlessly eliminate everything that doesn't lead to results.
They say no to the "effort traps" that make them feel productive without moving the needle.
The next time I catch myself saying "I'm working so hard on this," I need to add the missing second half of that sentence: "...and here's what I've accomplished."
If the second part is missing, I might be stuck in the results trap.
What one thing could I do today that would create actual results, not just effort?
What busy work could I eliminate to make room for it?
~ aq